Why do twin flames fight?

Everyone has a Twin Flame, because they are their anima/animus and potentially your perfect match. This relationship needs special consideration and is very intense, especially in the early stages. The great psychologist Carl Jung discovered that each person has an image of his or her perfect match within his or her own psyche. The Twin Flame phenomenon suggests that the anima and animus are more than just a psychic image: your other half can be born in flesh and blood, at the same time as you. A twin flame relationship is different from a soul mate partnership, although both can be fulfilling in many ways. You can tell if you have met your true soul mate because your lives will run parallel as identical twins, with amazing synchronicities.

So the question remains, if one’s Twin Flame is our perfect other half, then why is there so much trouble relating to our Twin? Why is there so much confusion and frequent breakups? Before you can understand the reason for these frustrations, it is essential that you understand that your soulmate provides a spiritual mirror to your own repressed personality. A Twin Flame relationship is about getting to know your dark side. They reveal to you what you need to develop in yourself. This is not a pretty achievement. Any problem you perceive in the relationship does not reside with your twin. but in you — and are simply the impetus for their own spiritual growth. Meeting your other half is a rare opportunity to experience “true love”, for which few of us are prepared. True love is the opportunity to love another without expectations of that other person. The purpose of the Twin Flame union is to manifest unconditional love. The realization you finally come to when you meet your Twin is that it is not possible to love another human being unconditionally. without first learning to love yourself. If you live your life primarily from ego, fear, or the need to control others out of a feeling of inadequacy, you will have great trouble reuniting with your Twin.

Your dark side has the qualities that you find unacceptable and have suppressed from awareness. We rediscover these aspects of ourselves through projection onto another person. This is true for any relationship. When we react with strong emotion to someone’s behavior, it is most likely that we have run into our own dark side. This projection helps us to recognize that same quality that we have repressed in ourselves. Reacting to your twin with anger or fear only complicates the relationship. It is much easier to blame someone else than to look at yourself. We tend to idealize our partner and want them to adapt to our desires and fulfill our fantasies. We don’t always see them as a separate human being. Meeting his Twin Flame will push you to look deep into his own soul and is an opportunity for greater self-awareness.

Consulting with standard therapists has been frustrating in my experience. The soulmate phenomenon is beyond the understanding of most modern psychologists. It is a very unique relationship that is largely unrecognized. Many question the authenticity of such an experience. Carl Jung came closest to correctly identifying and acknowledging the psychic energies at play and how they manifest. If he needs personal guidance, his best help is another confirmed Twin Flame who has gone through the difficult process of transformation and has emerged with a much greater sense of self-awareness and understanding.

When the Twins meet, the polarity aspects operate like a powerful magnet, and you are irresistibly attracted to each other, but can be equally repelled. The relationship can be obsessive, both emotionally and physically. It is common to think about this person all the time and due to the psychic connection, they may have similar experiences within a similar time frame. The lives of Twin Flames are very similar to those of identical twins. Even if they break up out of anger, they will eventually regret it and want to reunite in harmony at a future date. If you give up your Twin, it is like giving up yourself.

If one of the soulmates is married, the complications are even greater, as all relationships must be honored and feelings must be kept open. It is important that behavior is transparent and of the highest integrity for all stakeholders. If a Twin Flame acts in an abusive manner, she will suffer greatly at her own hands. Establishing trust is essential, and this takes time. When you attack your Twin, remember that in essence you are also attacking an aspect of yourself. This special dynamic can drive them apart over and over again with emotional intensity and frustration. Once they calm down and review what happened, they should try to solve the problem on their own terms, hence the need for separate self-development. This is why breakups are so common. It is also not unusual for one of the Twins to have a near death experience, after meeting the other half of him. For the relationship to be successful, there is a great need for self-love, self-acceptance, and patience.

Without experienced guidance, this pattern of starting and stopping again can repeat itself endlessly. The powerful attraction brings them back together again and again, hopefully with more realistic expectations of each other. It is another opportunity for them to work out their differences and grow spiritually. If they seek divine protection and learn to surrender, the relationship can progress more quickly, but few people do this. Twin Flames have been born in this generation to help raise the love vibration of the planet. Complete acceptance and forgiveness of any pain is essential to moving forward.

Always keep communication channels open. I recommend reading Eckhart Tolle The power of Now and note his description of the “body of pain.” This will help you learn to control your own emotions. Powerful pain bodies are a common problem with twin flames, as with all relationships. Don’t let your identification with the sad story of your life destroy your ability to make a new one. Your soulmate is here to help inspire you to succeed on every level. Once you learn to fully accept each other and love each other unconditionally, replacing guilt and anger, you can reach a eureka moment. No matter how difficult it may be at first, it is a great blessing to have met your twin, even if the relationship is only partially successful. There are no guarantees of long-term commitment, but it is an opportunity to experience true love. Remember that the Twin Flame experience gives you the opportunity to learn to love yourself completely and then loving others is easier.

If you think you have met your Soul Mate, I offer full Twin Flame counseling over the phone with individual guidance. I am a genuine twin flame, spiritual intuitive and experienced astrologer and I have a technique that can confirm if you have really met your other half. I am looking for more couples to advise and validate this important life experience. Spread the love!

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