Would not you like to know? Lately, it seems almost every man is asking this question. Of course, there are those who just “have the gift,” but if you’re not one of those lucky few, you have to learn it, like most of us.
Sounds like hard work, right? I tell you the truth, it could be. Most of the time, it is. Most guys try to “work it out” for themselves. The result? They approach a couple of girls, they are rejected. Lots of other girls. Refused. After a few nights of partying, they get desperate and just QUIT.
So how do you flirt with a girl? Is there a specific ‘way’? Is there some “secret” we’re all missing? Well, the answer is yes or no. Let me explain. Girls respond to specific things. All of them. In prehistoric times, the caveman who had the most food and shelter to offer got all the girls. Why? Because he had the solutions to girls’ problems. What does all that have to do with your flirting skills? All. Keep reading.
While humans have changed a lot over evolution and time, they are still driven by the same basic needs. Like any other living being. Now, let’s see what we can learn from our caveman friend. In ancient times, everyone fought for food and shelter from animals and barbarians.
A male who had both to offer instantly attracted females. Why? Because he had the SOLUTIONS to girls’ PROBLEMS. A female knows that mating with him will give her food and shelter. She can meet her basic needs.
In short, it has value to offer. And that is, the cornerstone of attraction. Worth. Therefore, if you want to know how to flirt with girls, you need to know how to show courage. And as we said, value is responding to a girl’s basic needs. The two most important basic needs of women in today’s world are the future and fun. All others fall into one of these categories. So in order to flirt with a girl, you need to show her qualities that meet these needs.
