A bone of contention in many relationships falls within the area of communication. Many women know exactly what I mean. You start dating a fantastic guy, he seems almost perfect in every way, but he can’t seem to pick up the phone to call you. You end up being the one calling him and it makes you feel a bit abandoned. The resentment builds over time, and eventually you and your boyfriend have a huge argument about the fact that you have to do all the calling. Is there an easier solution to this problem? Is there a way to make your boyfriend call you more often? Surprisingly there is. Any woman can do only one thing to accelerate her boyfriend’s desire to call her. It is much easier than you think.
What you have to do to make your boyfriend call you more often is to call him less. It’s about balance. When one person in the relationship assumes any role, he becomes the one who will always play that role. It’s true for just about everything, including being the one who takes care of the housework, the one who drives, or the one who makes the calls. Even if your boyfriend says that he will call, he will leave you that job if you have come in the past and you will call before him. When any man knows that the woman they are involved with will bear the brunt of the job, regardless of what it is, they will allow him to do that. This is certainly true in the so-called. If you’re impatient and he’s told you he’ll call you in the past, and you don’t wait for him to, eventually he won’t even make the effort.
Men are more intrigued by women who play tough. This may seem like advice more suited to your mother’s or grandmother’s generation, but now it works surprisingly well, too. If you don’t give him a chance to pursue you, he will eventually lose interest in you. If you want him to call more, call him less. Also, don’t answer each and every time he calls you. Allow her to leave you a message once in a while and then take her time to call you back. Doing this will show her that you’re not sitting by the phone, waiting with bated breath for her call. When you let a man chase you, he will want you more and more.
