There are some striking similarities between sex and self-awareness regarding intimate relationships, some of which you may never have thought of. And why would you? The two seem to be worlds apart. But are they?
Similarities Between Sex and Self-Awareness
1. Sex Y self awareness Both are part of an intimate relationship. However, there are many who do without one or both.
2. People who spend a lot of time without sex sometimes I no longer feel the need, desire or desire.
The same happens with self awareness. As long as you don’t have Self-Awareness and don’t feel its absence in your life, you won’t feel the need to develop it.
3. When you have sex – and enjoy it – you often want more.
The same happens with self awareness: Once you start to develop it and realize how it changes your life for the better, you want to continue developing it further, to become even more aware and empowered to improve your life and your relationships.
4. In relationships there is always someone who wants (and “needs”) more sex and the one who wants and “needs” less. Even if you both want sex and enjoy it, there is always one who wants more and one who wants less.
The same happens with self awareness: in every relationship there is always one who is more and another who is less aware. Even when both partners develop Self-Awareness, one is still more self-aware than the other.
5. have sex it is unique to each individual and each couple. Everyone has their “own cup of tea (or coffee)”. How they have sex is up to them. Creativity is an important ingredient of good sex. There are those who take their time while having sex, and those who do it very quickly. There are those who “help” their partner to enjoy themselves, and those who only care about their own pleasure.
The same happens with self awareness. Developing and using it is also unique to each individual. There are those who go through the fast process, those who do it slowly; there are those who develop it “one step at a time”, and those who develop it constantly over a long period of time. There are those who worry about the self-awareness of their partners and those who worry more than anything about their own.
6.During sex there are those who “demand” that their partner responds to their requests; they try to convince and “teach” their partners how to have “good sex.”
The same happens with self awareness: There are those who demand that their partners develop a self-awareness parallel to them. Some even “outline” the process for their partners.
7. Couples who hardly see each other during the day and/or the week, when they go to bed at night the woman often does not feel like sex. She might blame her partner for not showing her much attention, which is one of the reasons she doesn’t get sexually and emotionally aroused by him.
The same goes for self-awareness: couples who barely see each other during the day and/or week, when they go to bed at night and don’t even bother to talk and listen to each other, often don’t contemplate developing self awareness and find out what’s going on with them and how they’re hurting your relationship (each might instead tend to blame the other).
Where there are NO similarities between Sex Y self awareness
1. Research shows that a woman who spends her day doing things together with her partner for the kids feels more “up to it” to have sex with him later that night (even if she’s tired) than a woman whose husband didn’t help her with family matters.
The same not necessarily keep the truth with self awareness: A person who is highly involved with their partner during the day is not necessarily more likely to become more self-aware. Often “doing” things together becomes a matter of course that has no relevance to Self-Awareness.
two. Sex on TV and movies it is often done very frequently, which makes you feel confused about your own sexuality. But then, while talking to friends, you realize that everyone is in the same boat: no one has the same sex drive as portrayed on TV and in movies.
With self-consciousness there It is not such a big gap between TV, movies and you: not only do you not see people dealing with their self awareness on TV and movies, many of your friends (including yourself) may not be involved either.
Sex, self-awareness and intimate relationships
Both Sex Y self awareness they are ingredients of a high-quality relationship. The more one (and the partner) feel at peace with their sex life (regardless of frequency) and more aware of themselves (and the partner), the higher the quality of their intimacy, due to its openness, authenticity, mutual give and take, your ability to No they damage their bond unnecessarily, but react and behave towards each other in ways that are vital to a healthy and successful relationship.
