Women often have extramarital affairs for different reasons than men. With women, it’s often due to the neglect of their spouses and with husbands, it’s more about ego and the excitement of an illicit relationship. Most people who are having affairs show signs that you can be attentive. Here is a list of 100 signs that may indicate that your partner is probably having an affair.
1 – Unexplained stains on clothing.
2 – Her husband spends more money than usual.
3 – Sudden interest in doing laundry.
4 – Avoid doing things together.
5 – Avoid social events with you.
6 – Worry more about appearance.
7- Become great friends with people who have gone through a divorce.
8 – Become more outgoing, less serious.
9 – Being away from home more often.
10 – Being caught in small lies about the details of the day.
11 – Being critical and sometimes making fun of you.
12 – Be less attentive.
13 – Being reluctant to make future plans and commitments with you.
14 – Changes in the schedule; making it harder to spend time together.
15 – Changes of ‘marital status’ on any social networking website.
16 – Suddenly change passwords on email or other Internet accounts.
17 – Claiming to be stressed with work problems when asked about his behavior change.
18 – Closes or minimizes internet browsers/instant messaging screens when you go to your room.
19 – Coming home and needing a shower, especially when it wasn’t like that before.
20 – Create an emotional distance between you.
21 – Delete the history of the Internet page more often than before.
22 – Develop an active life outside the home.
23 – Talk about restaurants and the quality of their food with friends you never went with her.
24 – Does not listen to your feelings or concerns.
25 – Go ahead and visit friends/family alone
26 – Forgets birthdays and special events.
27 – Get a new hairstyle.
28 – Goes to places outside the city when this is unusual for him.
29 – Go out onto the balcony to make or receive calls.
30 – Intuition – If you think that your spouse is cheating on you, it is very likely that there is a good reason why you have these suspicions.
31 – He buys you flowers for no reason.
32 – He has many new movements in bed.
33 – Insist on the child seat; Toys are not left in the car.
34 – He says that he is on a diet and that he does not eat what I cook for him.
35 – Spend a lot of time on the internet chat.
36 – He does nothing that I ask him to do at home.
37 – You will not have dinner at home with us as a family.
38 – It won’t let you have passwords for online email accounts.
39 – He/she does not return phone calls immediately. He/She does not answer the phone every time I call.
40 – Has been working late most nights.
41 – You have been exercising a lot lately all of a sudden.
42 – Insists on answering the phone.
43 – He goes out more often with his friends.
44 – He/She may be more difficult to locate than before. Especially during certain times of the day when they should be available, like during lunch or right after work.
45 – It can seem boring with you.
46 – Increased expressions of love.
47 – Keep the cell phone away from you.
48 – Less emotion to be near you.
49 – Less indulgence and understanding.
50 – Less intimacy, conversation and revelations.
51 – Less exchange of feelings.
52 – Lose a lot of weight.
53 – You can cancel events with you.
54 – You can fight more for money and finances.
55 – You can mention that you are not happy.
56 – You may not express affection as much as before.
57 – Mood swings more unusual than before.
58 – Mutual friends stop seeing you so often. They start acting strange when talking to you.
59 – Needing some time for himself and his own friends.
60 – Does not always share new information.
61 – Offer excuses about our planning of future trips and vacations.
62 – Too affectionate sometimes.
63 – The partner seems depressed, distant or confused.
64 – Partner spending a lot of time with a specific person.
65 – He seems uncomfortable around you.
66 – She is unusually cold with you and superficial conversations.
67 – Buy new clothes more often.
68- Silly excuses to go out “alone”.
69 – Sleeping on the couch some nights.
70 – Smell of another perfume or body lotion on your body (or on your clothes).
71 – Spend a lot of time on the computer as usual.
72 – Spends a lot of time texting.
73 – Begin to use new phrases while speaking.
74 – Begins to carry a travel bag in the office.
75 – Begins to work on holidays and weekends.
76 – Stop wanting sex or want more sex, more often.
77 – Stop wearing a wedding ring or often forget to wear the wedding ring.
78 – Stop looking at other women as much as before.
79 – Sudden changes of interests and hobbies.
80 – Sudden changes in the way of dressing.
81 – Suggest that things do not work.
82 – Taking time off work without telling you.
83 – Taking the dog out for much longer walks.
84 – Talk about separation.
85 – Tell you not to wait up.
86 – The position of the computer is changed so that you cannot easily see the monitor screen.
87 – They want their own PC and won’t let you use it.
88 – Unexplained loss of time.
89 – Unjustified loss of clothing.
90 – Unexplained scratches or bruises on the neck or back.
91 – Unusual phone activity or text messages.
92 – We are just friends – A very predictable statement that will come from a cheating spouse.
93- When your partner avoids communicating with you.
94 – Whisper into the phone or quickly hang up. Your partner ends the phone call on short notice if you are present.
95 – You don’t know how/what/why you know, but you notice that something is wrong.
96 – You may feel that you are being avoided or ignored.
97 – They lead very separate lives.
98 – Your partner is avoiding you.
99 – Your partner can get frustrated when answering your questions.
100 – Your spouse’s paychecks don’t reflect all of this extra work done.
