Does my boyfriend want to break up with me? If you’re asking this, your relationship is obviously headed downhill toward disaster. You can usually tell when your guy is drifting away. Some of us don’t want to face the fact, so we try to explain our man’s behavior with excuses like he is overworked or under stress. If you are ready to face reality, there are some clues in his behavior that actually indicate that he is about to leave you. If you spot any of these, prepare for the worst.
When you ask the question, does my boyfriend want to break up with me, consider how often he rushes over to see you? We are all accused of this when a relationship is new. Our man just can’t seem to get enough of us and he runs to us just because he misses us so much. Obviously, that breathless anticipation is going to change as the relationship matures. However, if he prefers to stay home and watch TV and stops making the effort to watch you, that’s a big red flag that something is seriously wrong. The same is true if he constantly tells you that he is tired or that he doesn’t feel well. He’s really trying to say that he doesn’t like you anymore.
Has your boyfriend stopped talking to you about the important things in his life? If he always confided in you about what was going on and that is no longer the case, his feelings have obviously changed. He feels separated from you and because of that he doesn’t feel as open to sharing the details of his life.
When a man begins to emotionally disengage from a woman, he will see things in her that he had overlooked in the past. Little things that he once found quaint and charming will now get on his nerves and under his skin. You can tell when this is happening because he will become critical and praise will be replaced by criticism. Obviously it’s painful when this happens, but it’s also helpful. He gives you a clear picture of what is going on in his heart and how dramatically his feelings have changed.
Another subtle way of knowing that your boyfriend is ready to break up with you can be found in his relationship with the other people in his life. If a man is contemplating ending a relationship, he will try to put some distance between himself and the people his girlfriend cares about. He doesn’t want to have any additional emotional entanglements to deal with once he’s done with her.
