Pickup and Seduction – How NOT to Trigger a Woman’s Feeling of Rejection

By now, it’s pretty well accepted that women

as a man who is a bit cocky. If you are

interested in have a date more women then pay

a lot of attention.

It’s true. If a man is confident, bordering

conceited, he will present himself as a challenge,

and we all know that women love a challenge.

Other times, a man can go too far with this.

behavior and make a woman feel so insecure, she

feel unqualified.

Sometimes going too far with any technique, no

no matter how good it is, it will not get the desired

results. In the case of acting too arrogant, a

woman sometimes feels so rejected that she begins

walk away.

What happened is that you provoked it.

“Self-rejection mechanism”.

She interpreted one of your actions as rejection,

and as such, she responded in a way to protect herself

herself from further rejection.

Metaphorically speaking, you stuck the knife in,

and she was just trying to avoid that

twisting it.

It’s a natural response to that kind of thing.

It may seem like it’s shutting you down, and

is not attracted, but is actually completely

rational response to its miscalibration.

There are a couple of very common situations in

what is a woman’s self-rejection mechanism


These are:

1. Using cocky humor in a way that is ill-calibrated or overly

serious way

It is very important to mix your humor with a

very warm atmosphere. Your body language and tone

I should be implying that you’re breaking it in

a very loving way. Oh, and be sure to smile.

2. Showing disapproval when you are in your

selection and qualification phase.

If she is attracted and at the point where she is

talking about herself in an attempt to win you over

more, leave it Show approval and be genuine

interested in what you have to say. do not punish

her for opening up to you and trying to win you over


3. Create an opportunity for physical climbing

and not move on.

This is very common, and we actually get A LOT of

questions about this phenomenon. sometimes a boy

will have a girl ready to go, ready for sex, and

he will climb very slowly or not at all.

Out of nowhere, the woman stops returning her


If it produces a window of opportunity for

physical climbing, make it happen.

4. Not calling her after sex and expecting her to do it.

Follow up.

After sex, sometimes a guy feels like he has

he won, and now a girl should chase him.

Unfortunately, that is not the case.

If a woman opens up to you physically, she needs

be comfortable in a way that doesn’t make you

look like a player (That is, if you want to do

the relationship goes beyond one night


If you feel that you have gotten into this type of

cycle, fear not. There are remedies for it.

1. Catch it early.

If you notice that she may be pulling away

for lack of qualification, that’s for sure

self-rejection mechanism sign.

2. Falsely disqualify yourself.

Once you know that she is definitely attracted to

but a little scared of being rejected by you, tell him

she something like this:

“You know, I think I may be too mean.

Boy, and the last thing I want to do is break

your heart.”

This will set up a challenge for her to conquer.

and will make her discuss the other side of the

your point. she will be again


3. Rate her for not playing.

Tell her:

“You know, it’s really refreshing to meet a girl

who doesn’t like to play with boys. You seem

very direct, honest and sure going

after those things you really want.”

This will give you a little more confidence in

showing his interest in you. will also stop

she in her tracks playing hard to get.

Using those techniques will give you a safety net.

for going overboard with arrogant humor, which seems

be a very common sticking point these days.

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