By now, it’s pretty well accepted that women
as a man who is a bit cocky. If you are
interested in have a date more women then pay
a lot of attention.
It’s true. If a man is confident, bordering
conceited, he will present himself as a challenge,
and we all know that women love a challenge.
Other times, a man can go too far with this.
behavior and make a woman feel so insecure, she
feel unqualified.
Sometimes going too far with any technique, no
no matter how good it is, it will not get the desired
results. In the case of acting too arrogant, a
woman sometimes feels so rejected that she begins
walk away.
What happened is that you provoked it.
“Self-rejection mechanism”.
She interpreted one of your actions as rejection,
and as such, she responded in a way to protect herself
herself from further rejection.
Metaphorically speaking, you stuck the knife in,
and she was just trying to avoid that
twisting it.
It’s a natural response to that kind of thing.
It may seem like it’s shutting you down, and
is not attracted, but is actually completely
rational response to its miscalibration.
There are a couple of very common situations in
what is a woman’s self-rejection mechanism
motivated.
These are:
1. Using cocky humor in a way that is ill-calibrated or overly
serious way
It is very important to mix your humor with a
very warm atmosphere. Your body language and tone
I should be implying that you’re breaking it in
a very loving way. Oh, and be sure to smile.
2. Showing disapproval when you are in your
selection and qualification phase.
If she is attracted and at the point where she is
talking about herself in an attempt to win you over
more, leave it Show approval and be genuine
interested in what you have to say. do not punish
her for opening up to you and trying to win you over
on.
3. Create an opportunity for physical climbing
and not move on.
This is very common, and we actually get A LOT of
questions about this phenomenon. sometimes a boy
will have a girl ready to go, ready for sex, and
he will climb very slowly or not at all.
Out of nowhere, the woman stops returning her
calls
If it produces a window of opportunity for
physical climbing, make it happen.
4. Not calling her after sex and expecting her to do it.
Follow up.
After sex, sometimes a guy feels like he has
he won, and now a girl should chase him.
Unfortunately, that is not the case.
If a woman opens up to you physically, she needs
be comfortable in a way that doesn’t make you
look like a player (That is, if you want to do
the relationship goes beyond one night
stop…)
If you feel that you have gotten into this type of
cycle, fear not. There are remedies for it.
1. Catch it early.
If you notice that she may be pulling away
for lack of qualification, that’s for sure
self-rejection mechanism sign.
2. Falsely disqualify yourself.
Once you know that she is definitely attracted to
but a little scared of being rejected by you, tell him
she something like this:
“You know, I think I may be too mean.
Boy, and the last thing I want to do is break
your heart.”
This will set up a challenge for her to conquer.
and will make her discuss the other side of the
your point. she will be again
interested.
3. Rate her for not playing.
Tell her:
“You know, it’s really refreshing to meet a girl
who doesn’t like to play with boys. You seem
very direct, honest and sure going
after those things you really want.”
This will give you a little more confidence in
showing his interest in you. will also stop
she in her tracks playing hard to get.
Using those techniques will give you a safety net.
for going overboard with arrogant humor, which seems
be a very common sticking point these days.
