If you are in a relationship, you know that it can be difficult to handle and deal with. If you’re in a relationship that’s been going on for a long time, you may get into a routine of predictability. It can be as bad as you resent your partner because of those “taking advantage” feelings.
As time goes by, men may call less and less and women may feel like their men don’t care anymore. Women want to be close to their men even on the phone. If you are a woman in this kind of situation, then you may feel anxious and aggravated.
However, if you find yourself in this kind of predicament, there are things you should be aware of and things you MUST NOT DO.
(1) Don’t panic
Panicking is the worst thing you can do when your boyfriend doesn’t call. When he hasn’t called for a few days, don’t assume he has a new girlfriend. The chances of him getting a new girlfriend are really small.
There are many reasons why men take days to call their girlfriends. However, getting into a new relationship is usually not one of the reasons. Ladies, stop thinking the worst.
(2) Do not call or leave voicemail messages
Sometimes men don’t call their women back because they want to see her reaction. Many women repeatedly dial their boyfriend’s number when their calls have not been returned. When we expect them to call and they don’t, women worry. It’s normal when that feeling of rejection starts. He causes some women to leave a voice mail message, desperately asking him to call them back. What do women find like repeatedly leaving messages on voicemail? Men will see them as desperate and in need of their affections, which is a bad look for women.
Sometimes showing your feelings fully to your partner can lead to them taking advantage of you. If they know you’ll never leave him, you might feel like it’s okay not to call him back. They may even ignore you. Why? They know that no matter how much time passes, you will still be there, waiting for him to come back to you.
Solution to women’s boyfriend problems
When a boyfriend doesn’t call a woman back, the woman should stop waiting and go out and enjoy life. Don’t call him. What happens? They will wonder what happened and begin to be curious. When the man finally calls, don’t answer right away. Make the man be the one to leave the message. If the message says that he has been busy, a woman should reply with the same thing.
