So you just started dating a guy and you really like him. The problem is that he always takes too long to ask you out, and when he does, he does it in such a casual way that you don’t even know how he really feels about you. You have feminine powers to ask you out more often. Here are the secrets for that:
Stay beautiful.
You don’t need Beyonce’s legs or JLo’s booty to be irresistible. All you need is great skin, hair, and a friendly smile. Guys don’t really go for the supermodel type. They understand that these ladies are high maintenance and often impossible to keep up with. They prefer to go for a simple girl who knows good style. Impress a guy with wise fashion choices and just the right amount of skin.
Suggest activities of common interest.
If you and your guy love the same activities, why not do them together? For example, they both love mountain hiking. He knows of an event coming up and would like an excuse to see it, so why not ask him to tag along? Eventually he will learn to do the same for you.
Make it dependent.
Better him than you. Was he recently depressed and you were the angel who graciously made him feel better? Are you always around when he needs to talk to a friend? Life is not perfect. The more challenges he finds, the more often he needs to see you, if you make him realize that you are the only person who can make him feel good.
Let him know that you are a busy person.
For some reason, the more you make yourself available to a guy, the less they ask you out. It is because, perhaps, they become complacent and know that they can have you any time they ask for it. But, if he lets her know that he has a busy schedule, he will be forced to insist on seeing you more often.
Be an engaging conversationalist.
While you may have the gift of eloquence and enjoy listening to yourself all the time, he may not have the same feelings. Talking and not letting him talk is absolutely selfish. On the other hand, if he impresses you so much that you go dumbfounded every time he speaks to you, he may also be projecting a weak personality. If he finds out that you are a great conversationalist and a good listener, he will ask you out more often.
Just ask him out.
It sounds like a desperate job, but if you really want something for yourself, you have to get it like you mean it. Call him casually and tell him you’d like to see him for coffee. If you get his machine, don’t try again. He’ll call you if he’s interested, and if he’s not, he’ll find someone else.
Inject humor into your relationship.
So you want him to see you more often, but you don’t have the guts to open this up to him. Simple: Say it as a joke. “Where have you been hiding? I’m not going to eat you, you know that.” “What’s wrong with me, you never want to see me” may sound desperate, but if you inject humor into the line, you could easily figure out a man’s intentions. If he really likes you, he might tell you that he’s sorry and would really like to see you.
